The chorus of Adam Lambert's "There I Said It" goes like this:
So there, I said it
And I won't apologize to you anymore
'Cause I'm a grown ass man
And I won't live again
And I'm sick and tired of livin' in your shadow
So there, I said it
No, I won't apologize to you anymore
'Cause I'm a grown ass man
And I don't understand
Why I should be livin' in the shadows
So there, I said it
However, looking through the rest of the lyrics to the song, I can't quite figure out what the "I said it" actually refers to. He doesn't seem to come out and say something explicitly; the whole song is just about saying it, as far as I can tell.
So... what does "There , I said it" actually refer to in this song?